One sided lover!

One sided lovers!

Interesting isn't it!
We ever gave a thought about who they are?

Well, here it goes...

They are the people who know the actual meaning of loving someone unconditionally, the ones who stand there as a guard even though knowing they wouldn't possibly land up with the person they love.
They will be the one who would jump in the well to save you even though knowing that they would drown.
They will not tell you what they actually feel for that very person but would do anything and everything possible just so that person stays happy and safe.
They would stand next to you as your friend, as your 3 am call, as your saviour and you wouldn't even have a clue about it.

Some people are lucky who get their one sided love into a two way but the rest they use different ways of expressing their feelings either by music, poetry or some through words. They let go of them just for their happiness, keeping them alive in their memories and hoping to cherish them again the same way.

They show the exact meaning of loving someone and to let go of someone for their happiness even though a piece of them goes away with them.

They love deeply and unconditionally and would be there for you no matter what the situation would be!

Yes! That's what one sided lovers are! :)

Words

Words!

Strange how they can be as sharp as a knife. Words have the power to completely make a person and to completely destroy a person too and can do the same to relationships and friendships too.

Today, I see why!
Every soul present here has some words which he/she is unable to speak out. Those words which got converted from the deep down feelings to those words which some how gets stuck on our heart when we desperately want them out.

But why stuck? Out of fear of the fact that no one would understand them.

Every now and then the hands type those words yet are always stuck whether they should be saved or sent or should be erased. But maybe writing those words down and letting go of it, makes us feel better?

Personally, I blog about sensitive issues which day to day a person feels in him/her because those are the words which needs to reach out to people in order to make them home. Words have always been easy yet sensitive, Soothing yet painful, but always remember they are the ones which will prepare you for the best and help you grow through the worse.

Words in their own way are an action to justify themselves. So, go ahead! Write them down! Try expressing, try taking out those fears, anger and guilt so that you don't live a life which is heavy in the heart and wet in the eyes :)

Let those thoughts be out. Don't worry if people don't understand.
Remember someone will understand those words

Be an inspiration to people with those very words so that one day they can look up to you and say, your words gave me the strength to express myself today!

Try it! It worked for me.
Maybe it shall work for you too!

To A New You!

It's been a while, that I got my thoughts together, but here I'm with them, finally summed up. As this year is coming to an end, I realised where we all are. Every year we promise not to fool ourselves with the demon hidden in us or hidden within any other person, but, unfortunately life plays its trick and we get stuck in that trap.

I lost a lot of people this year, I made a lot of new friends some kinda introvert and some crazy enough to match my crazy yet something is different in all this.

Yes! That's Me! Every time we meet new people we start adapting their traits, and once they leave, they take a part of us with them. We feel empty, we feel lost yet the reality is we change! We grow and learn different things in life and our perception to it changes with every situation.

Somewhere deep down we crave to be that old person that we used to be, that old kid, the innocent soul, that person who was Carefree and didn't know how to close himself/herself to the world.

Instead, of making promises to save ourselves from the Demons within humans, why not make them dance on our own tunes. Why not promise to get back all those pieces of us again which we thought we lost. Why don't we try to be the old self that we were? Why don't we try to be that innocent kid, the Carefree person that we were?

With year passing by don't we try to be better and let go of some things in life, then why can't try to be ourselves for once in this forsake world? Wouldn't be a lot simpler than just seeing back those memories and craving to be that again?!

So, whose in with me with this promise!?
You never know, you just find yourself again and be happy without any regrets!

I Believe I Can!
And I Believe That You Can Too!

:)

Emotional And Sensitive! 😊

Among the most kind of people, my interest has always been in the Sensitive and Emotional people. Not because I'm one, but because I understand and connect to them more easily than any other kind of human beings.

I've friends who are emotional, sensitive and get easily attached to people and then upset themselves when they feel the slightest change in the behaviour.

They try keeping themselves busy, by either  partying, dancing and singing around and what not but jus so that their thoughts don't consume them.

Unfortunately, they don't talk out their problems because they have been hurt or broken or there was no one when they cried for help. They know how to fake their emotions even when they are sad.

These are the people who love hard. They know the value of feelings and they know exactly how it feels to loved and broken and lost.

Today, I just want to tell them something, I know you are in there, tired of all the  hustle and bustle, Tired of being hurt and tired of not being understood on the grounds of your own behaviour and emotions, I know and believe that you are unique.

I believe that with time things do fall in place, but only if we want them too.
Rest for a while. Stop fighting it for a while.
For once breathe!

For once let the good things come to you, don't let the negativity eat you up.
For once believe in your soul!
For once just believe in love and happiness!

For once believe in yourself!
Not everyone who cares is bad, some just come to you with affection just because that's all they have to give you.

For once my dear mate let it all go and move ahead and see what big is coming your way!

You Never know, after this huge struggle, you just might get what you deserved!

*LOVE*
      &
*HAPPINESS*

Journey 😇

Ever thought of looking back and expressing about the journey you had in words or in any other form?

No! Why? Because we had more failures and bad experiences than good smiling ones..

We remember them because they were either incomplete, unsuccessful or didn't go as we planned and then the rest we know.

It's like downloading a file where it's 99% complete and suddenly it shows error in downloading.

But then, with a lil disappointment we still try until we reach there so that we can complete it. We find different ways of doing that work.

Similarly is our Journey, it will have both sugar and salt, the bad and the good, black and white but it depends on us what we want to see.

My journey had both the negatives and positives of life and still has. I know my journey is beautiful even though I don't know what each day brings for me yet I believe it to be a new adventure and a new lesson.

For me, all these are the Chapters Of My Journey with the taste of both bitter and sweet.

I chose to be positive with each hurdle I cross because I believe in me and in the journey which I've stepped into!

Graduation! 😇

Isn't it all jus a phase of life.. 😊

You must be asking what?!
When we were kids we all wanted to grow up and becomes adults. We used to see our seniors enjoying and think when will we get this opportunity!

We left school and stepped into that phase of our lives which took a professional turn. Yes!

Graduation!!

The thought of joining college was different!
People think that college is all about bunking classes, backbenchers, smoking up and drinking and what not!

But nope it isn't! As kids out definition of enjoyment was this, but when we did step on it we realised enjoyment is upto us even in those chains!

We got busy with out studies, we learned the real meaning of the statement 'keep your friends close but your enemies closer'
We learn that even the 'best friend forever' breaks into pieces but then how come did we see our seniors enjoying? :)

While studying for my last exam, and sliding through the college memories and flipping to those notes where we calculated FLAMES, played tick tack, mocked our professors in an artistic way and talk like little kids on piece of writing sheets, I realised what enjoyment was.

Last exam it was!
Not only of the journey of my graduation but the very last exam with college.
Those memories of playing killer, chor police daku, truth and dare, uno, ludo, and many more made us remind of the childhood memories we had made.

We made them again, but unlike before, we had shared a hearty laugh with 4 more people!
Writing down my last exam made me realise that tomorrow won't be college again.
Tomorrow I shall not see the people who used to complain coming to college!

I shall not see the same darwaan whom we begged to enter in the first period. No faculty members, no time constrain. No fights, no suspension, no scolding!

Nothing!

Apart from what we wrote on the shirt which we wore everyday attaching our skin to it with dignity, pride, self-confidence and attitude!

Yes! That one token of memory which we all share! That memory which we would look back and say yes I was once there with these crazy bunch of people who made my journey worth writing and listening to.

From cursing the college and wanting a free period to writing the last exam with the shirt writing, I jus wanna say no matter what life goes on ..!!

So it does and so do we!

Jus remember : Paths Will Cross Again, We Shall Meet Again!
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Cheers To The New Chapter Of Our Lives!
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Life : The Best Teacher!

Strange how life changes for all of us and how we keep on moving ahead in life!

We learn alot of lessons which helps us to grow and develop ourself in a way that we can adjust and make our own way in this world!

From Mother Nature, Life, Failure to Fighting from Emotional Break down, everything teaches us something new and helps us to grow.

How strange it is that since our childhood, whatever we learnt and whenever and wherever we applied that on our practical life, the course of action was either to naive or the problem was just too messed up. 

We learn from every situation, whether it's good or bad. We understand how life works and how things work out in this world 

But what's important is to carry that lesson with us but also important to look back and say, Yes! I was once there and I survived it. 

Thank You Life For Teaching Me Alot Of Things!

Thank You Life For Making Me What I'm Today! ❤️